Don't Despair! Never Give up!
No prayer is ever wasted.
No good deed is ever done
in vain. When you feel ready
to give up, try the following 12
suggestions. All of these things,
help, not only you, but the entire world,
and not just this world, but all of the worlds:
1. Strengthen your relationships - with your
Creator, your family, your friends, your spiritual
advisor. If you have unfinished business with your
parents, make every effort to resolve any issues that
might be keeping you from expressing wholehearted
love for them. Even if you feel there is no way they can
give you what you need, make every effort to forgive
them and love them anyway. This one change in
yourself can have profound effects on all of your
relationships.
*Psalm 121
A Song of Ascents.
I will lift my eyes to the mountains:
from where will my help come?
My help comes from G-d,
Maker of heaven and earth.
He will not let your foot slip,
He will not slumber - your Guardian.
Behold He does not slumber
nor does He sleep - the Guardian of Israel!
G-d is your Guardian,
G-d is your shelter at your right hand.
By day the sun will not smite you,
nor the moon at night.
G-d will guard you from all evil;
He will preserve your soul.
G-d will guard your going and coming.
from now and forever.
4. Do one more kindness for another person.
Every favor you do for someone, no matter how small,
elevates you and releases tremendous light into the
world. Visit the sick and lonely, help a family with many
children. Every act of giving prepares you to be
successful in marriage.
If you don't have a dollar, give a penny. If it's easy for
you to give, give more. Giving tzedakah, or charity, has
tremendous spiritual power.to elevate your soul and
rectify the world.
6. Make a commitment to do one more mitzvah
consistently. Commitment and consistency are two
key ingredients of a successful marriage. Click here
7. Tell one more person what you are looking for
and ask if they know of anyone for you.
8. Travel to another Jewish community for a
Shabbos. And be sure to ask people if they know
9. Take a short break from dating and strengthen
your relationship with your self. Check in with
yourself and with where you are holding. Relax and do
things that restore your naturally happy state. Look for
areas of yourself that you can expand.and refine. Try
in Torah and Chassidus. Your soulmate might be
waiting for you there!
10. Give money to engaged couples who can't
kindness with His kindness. When we give to others,
G-d gives to us.
11. Pray on behalf of your unmarried friend.
Our sages tell us that when you truly ask for something
on behalf of your friend, and you also need that thing,
your prayers will be answered for you first. But you can't
fool G-d, you have to truly want for your friend what you
want for yourself. This is also very good practice for
marriage.
12. Trust that your situation right now is exactly
what is right for you at this time and make the
most of it.
Don't worry. G-d hasn't forgotten where you
live! The Master of the Universe listens to
every prayer and sees every heart.
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