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This page was last updated on: August 19, 2007
The Two Most Important
Things To Remember
When Using the Internet To
Find Your soulmate:
1. Get and check references.
A person may be a great writer, but not necessarily truthful. Ask for references who are well-respected in your date's community such as a rabbi or rebbetzin, not just a personal friend. Call them early on in the correspondence. Have specific questions ready to ask and also ask about the person's general character. This step can be crucially important for weeding out potentially dangerous or unpleasant situations.
2. Meet in person before forming emotional attachments.
Save yourself time and heartache. It is possible to have a fabulous correspondence, and wonderful phone conversations with someone for months, only to discover that when you finally meet in person, there is no chemistry. The internet is best used to identify potential dates to meet and to keep communication going in-between visits and phone calls.
Ask yourself: Do I want a penpal or a marriage partner?
Mitmazel is the best shiduch site on the internet for meeting potential life partners in a safe, dignified way.
Mitmazel, combines 21st century technology with the wisdom of Jewish tradition. Each full member must have a sponsor as a reference. You can call the sponsor first, or even have your own sponsor call their sponsor to see if you would be suitable for each other. Associate members can browse the database but receive no contact information until they join.
Click here for 12 ways to keep your spirit high while searching for your soulmate.
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